Our Top 10 Couples Sex Toys & How to Use Them


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Ah, sex toys. As a grown adult, hopefully, you’ve found a few favorite standbys for your personal pleasure chest. (If not, allow us to recommend some favorites.) But if you typically only use your sex toys to go alone, it’s time to expand your horizon and consider some new possibilities. As it turns out, sex toys aren’t just for solo play — they can also make partnered adventures even more enthralling. And we’re not just talking about using what you have. Yes, you can grab your fave vibe and bring it to the coupled mix, but there’s a whole market full of toys designed to give both you and your boo pleasure, no jealousy required.

Like most things, the enjoyment of toys is better shared. We focused here on toys that are meant to be used with a partner. From hands-free vibrators to clenched-Kegel dildos, we think these are the best toys to explore with your best bed friend. And you’re a little nervous about asking them to branch out and experiment with you, lean into it — the nerves will bring some adrenaline and might just make the whole thing that much more exciting. After all, you never know what they might be into until you ask.

So go on. Add a little buzz to your breakfast sex, some daring to your dinnertime denouement. These toys can help.

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A version of this story was published October 2017.

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