As temperatures drop, we once again have a bit more at-home time these days to spend being our own safest sex partner, so it only makes sense that we’re all embracing our social distancing time taking extra care of ourselves. As a connoisseur of online porn, I have to admit right here and now that it is still tough as heck in 2020 to find a website featuring hot, good porn that doesn’t overwhelmingly prioritize the male gaze or the male orgasm. Sure, you can wade through the various and sundry videos to find one where female pleasure and the female orgasm are the focus — but even then, there’s the distinct feeling that because of the way she’s being filmed and the way she’s encouraged to act and speak, there is still a man calling the shots. And underneath that a feeling that the porn you’re trying to enjoy isn’t for you.
So, where are the porn sites that cater to the female gaze, that honor female sexuality in all its beautiful forms and that don’t objectify women in a way that will have you ready to take a shower immediately after viewing? Where are the porn sites that feel current and up to date with what we want from sexual media today? And where are the porn sites that don’t distract you from how good you want to feel?
Fear no more, friend, because I have found some legitimately great porn sites for you. If you’re tired of porn that feels overwhelmingly straight, cis-man-centric, you’ll be pleased by the following selection of sites. And while we’re at it, it’s probably a good time to treat yourself to some new sex toys too. Please take care, though and don’t browse this one at your desk — because you’ll be able to access some NSFW websites from here on out. Click with caution and, when it’s time for You-time, have fun!
A version of this story was published on April 2018.
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