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How To Deal With Bullying Within the Family

Quick Summary Family bullying is repeated, intentional behavior—often disguised as “normal conflict”—that causes emotional harm and can come from siblings, parents, or other relatives. It’s often dismissed due to cultural norms, “family first” beliefs, or fear of speaking up, but family bullying deeply impacts self-worth, mental health, and trust in relationships. Coping includes setting and enforcing boundaries, reducing contact if needed, and seeking safe, supportive environments and help from a therapist. When bullying comes from within the family, it may
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Eldest Daughter Syndrome: The Weight of Being the Firstborn Girl

Quick Summary Eldest daughter syndrome is an informal term describing the pressure firstborn girls often face to act as caregivers, mediators, and role models from a young age. These expectations can lead to strengths like resilience and leadership, but also to burnout, people-pleasing, guilt over boundaries, and loss of self-identity. Cultural norms, parentification, and family stressors can make this role even heavier, especially in single-parent or high-conflict households. Recovery involves recognizing the burden, setting guilt-free boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and seeking
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Xanax vs. Gabapentin: Which Is Right for You?

Xanax (or its generic form, alprazolam) and Gabapentin are sometimes used to help with anxiety, but they are very different anxiety medications. Xanax is a benzodiazepine that works quickly to relieve sudden or intense anxiety symptoms, while Gabapentin is an anticonvulsant that is prescribed off-label for anxiety, often targeting nerve-related pain and mood stabilization. These drugs have distinct mechanisms, uses, and risks to be aware of, and they are not interchangeable Because each medication works differently, the right choice depends
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Gabapentin Withdrawal: All You Need to Know

Gabapentin is an anticonvulsant drug approved for epilepsy and nerve pain, but it’s also used off-label to treat conditions like anxiety. It’s one of the most commonly used medications for seizures, nerve pain, anxiety, and sleep disorders. Its use is increasing, too—the number of prescriptions written for Gabapentin more than doubled between 2009 and 2016. One of the reasons it’s used so often is due to its non-addictive nature. That said, can you have withdrawals from Gabapentin? The answer is
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How Long Does It Take Gabapentin to Work?

If you’re thinking about taking Gabapentin for anxiety, nerve pain, seizure control, or another condition, you’re probably wondering how long it takes before you’ll start feeling better. Gabapentin is a prescription drug in the class of anticonvulsants. It was originally developed to treat epilepsy and nerve pain, but it’s also commonly prescribed off-label for anxiety.  There’s no simple answer to how long it takes for Gabapentin to work. The truth is, it depends on several factors. What you’re taking it
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10 Effective Gabapentin Alternatives for Anxiety

Gabapentin is a prescription medication initially developed for seizures and treating nerve pain. Today, it’s also used off-label for other conditions like anxiety. Off-label drugs are not FDA-approved for that purpose but may be effective in treating certain conditions. Gabapentin’s effectiveness and how it makes you feel can vary. Like any drug, Gabapentin isn’t right for everyone. If you’ve tried it but don’t feel like it’s a good fit for any reason, you have alternative options.  You might be looking
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What To Do When You Need Someone To Talk To

Quick Summary Naming your emotions helps reduce their intensity and gives you clarity. You don’t need to wait for a crisis to strike. Connecting early with trusted friends or family is a courageous act of self-care that strengthens your support network and eases loneliness. If close contacts aren’t available, use helplines, peer groups, or online forums for a nonjudgmental connection. When no one is available to talk, expressive writing, journaling, or voice memos can reduce mental clutter and promote self-healing.
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How to Stop Suicidal Thoughts

Content warning:  This article discusses suicide, which may be triggering for some readers. If you are struggling with serious suicidal thoughts, please reach out for support. In the U.S., you can dial 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, or seek immediate medical attention if you are in danger. Struggling with your mental health can be isolating, overwhelming, and scary, especially if you’re in a dark place and are having suicidal thoughts. It’s important to know you’re not
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Transitioning Later in Life: A Helpful Guide for Embracing Your True Self

Quick Summary You can transition at any age. Many delay the process due to safety concerns, societal stigma, or personal responsibilities, but your timeline is valid. Emotional challenges like grief for “lost time,” fear of rejection, or uncertainty are common, but support networks and affirming relationships can help you thrive. Practical steps include navigating medical care, insurance, legal changes, workplace disclosure, and retirement planning with affirming resources. Building a strong support system, coming out at your own pace, and seeking
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I Was Told I Was Too Young to Have Endometrial Cancer — but I Did

As told to Shannon Shelton Miller September is Gynecologic Cancer Awareness Month. I was at work in February 2019 when my OB-GYN called me and asked if I could step away for a moment. “I’d rather not do this over the phone, but it’s pretty serious,” she said. “You have endometrial cancer, stage 1, and I’m going to refer you to an oncologist.” I was in shock. I was just 24, and while I’d experienced issues for most of my
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Is There Sex After Cervical Cancer?

Joslyn Paguio was diagnosed with HPV, the virus that can cause cervical cancer, in the middle of her freshman year of college. She was given no further information by her school medical clinic, but she did her own research and found an OB-GYN, who discovered that Paguio’s HPV strain was high-risk for becoming cancer and recommended careful monitoring. Years later, a few weeks before her wedding, Paguio was diagnosed with stage 1 cervical cancer. Paguio was grateful that she was
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Me dijeron que era demasiado joven para tener cáncer endometrial, pero lo tenía

English Tal como se relató a Shannon Shelton Miller Septiembre es el Mes de Concientización del Cáncer Ginecológico Estaba trabajando en febrero de 2019 cuando mi ginecóloga obstetra me llamó y me preguntó si podía hablar por un momento. « Preferiría no hacer esto por teléfono, pero es muy grave », dijo. « Tienes cáncer endometrial de etapa 1 y te voy a referir a un oncólogo ». Estaba conmocionada. Solo tenía 24 años y aunque experimenté problemas la mayor parte de mi adolescencia
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