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novembre 13, 2022Like

Self-Esteem And How It Changes Throughout Your Life

Self-esteem is how you value your self worth. In other words, it is an overall sense of yourself, your abilities and your value in your own perception. A person’s self-esteem falls on a spectrum ranging from Low to Healthy to Over-inflated: With a low self-esteem, you can feel worthless, inadequate, and undeserving of happiness. With a  healthy level of self-esteem, you might feel confident and feel like you deserve the things that come to you. With an overinflated level of
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Losing yourself in relationships

Even though turning the “I” into “We” and “Me” or “You” into “Us” can feel ecstatic, it is still important to maintain an individuality or personal sense of self in relationships. This is often hard to maintain when we are in new relationships and the other person is all you can think about or who you want to spend all of your time with. However, in order to sustain a healthy loving long-lasting relationship, it is essential we do not
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8 seasonal activities to help you beat winter boredom

To fill the season with life and discovery, try these activities For many of us, the winter brings with it a respite from the rush of summer. Like the natural world around us, we slow down a bit, retreat indoors, and take some time to recuperate. Slow, cosy, winter days-in were the things we dreamed of at the height of summer heat waves, when our social calendars were packed, and we rushed from one thing to the next. That said,
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Importance and Skills of Validation

Feeling heard, one of the simplest things in life yet so underrated. Validation is something that everybody yearns for but is not being practised abundantly. How powerful and important can the need to feel listened to and accepted be? Validation is a communication skill which shows that one is truly being understood for their actions, emotions, and point of view even if it’s disagreed upon. This basic skill of communication holds the power to make and break human relationships. Having
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Surviving a Break-up

« Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it. » – Helen Keller Breakups are associated with a flood of emotions, like anger, sadness, guilt, hurt, loneliness, etc. It may also leave us with a bruised self-image. Overcoming a break-up can be challenging as a result of complicated thoughts, difficult feelings, and a lack of emotional support. It can be extremely taxing to deal with it when there is no logical explanation behind the
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Understanding and Moving on from a Breakup

The end of a significant relationship is tough for all ages. We tend to be involved very deeply in these relationships and have our identities intertwined with the partner, which leads to making the break up even more painful. Some intense feelings, filled with self-doubt and questions about what happened and how can we move on from such a major loss, keep our minds clouded. Once we gain an understanding of the relationship, we tend to understand ourselves and our
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How can men and women learn to communicate better to resolve conflicts?

One of the core factors for healthy relationships is good communication. It plays a crucial role, especially in times of conflict or arguments. Hence, knowing how different genders speak different languages becomes important. The following insights are taken from a book written by Dr John Gray. Men and women speak different languages. Though they may be using the same words, the way they are used give different meanings. They may differ in terms of emotional emphasis. Men usually talk or
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Green Flags in Friendships

We often talk about red flags in relationships: platonic, romantic or familial. We all acknowledge what we don’t want in these relationships, at least to some extent. However, green flags — behaviours and feelings that we enjoy in relationships are rarely discussed. With the help of this article, you’ll be able to recognise signs that your friendship is healthy and where it can be improved. 1. Safety:  You feel safe in the friendship. Your body understands that this is a
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Validation

People’s internal experience should be acknowledged as valid during therapy. Validation helps to build and sustain healthy connections. It also supports the therapeutic relationship. The client may become angry or shut down when faced with challenging conversations or unjustified criticism. Communication can break down if they feel ignored and misunderstood, and if the issue is left unaddressed, it may potentially harm therapeutic alliance. Empathetic comprehension and communication are both necessary for validation. Empathy alone is insufficient; therapy must also draw
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Body image and its related disorders

Body image is the subjective view of one’s own body. It is a complex construct where individuals risk severe mental health adversities due to negative body image. Understanding the various disorders associated with it is essential to understanding the importance of acknowledging the struggles of body image. We discuss the disorders that have been researched over the years below. Body dysmorphia Body dysmorphia is a disorder usually emerging in the early teens. It is characterised by fixating on a personal
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Employee Motivation: How to achieve work-life balance?

In the 1900s, reformers started advocating for fair labor standards at a time when people routinely worked more than 100 hours per week. Yet, the term “work-life balance” did not come into fruition until the 1980s when the women’s liberation movement used it to describe the challenges faced by working women with families. Now, the term has grown to include all genders and more than just families. Work-life balance as a concept makes complete sense in theory but is rarely
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novembre 12, 2022Like

What is Work Stress?

The use of the term stress has surged in today’s time. Stress is not unique as it is experienced by almost everyone, even by working professionals. Stress in simple terms can be defined as a response to anything that one considers as threatening, pressurizing, or challenging. There are multiple stressors in the workplace. Stressors are anything that causes stress in an individual. Some common stressors at a workplace are as follows –  the workload (too much and too little workload,
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